First of all, I’d like to thank you Raven for taking the time to interview me. This has been such a fun experience and I hope those who cross this page, know there was a purpose.  

1) Tell us a little about you and what you do!

Hello everyone. I am psychic detective Wendy Kay who’s souls mission that I came here to do is to be the voice for the departed and to help bring them justice when they cannot be heard. I also work as a bridge as a medium to bring peace and comfort to the family members and loved one’s during such a hard emotional time.

2) What’s one of your favorite moments being a Medium?

One of my most favorite moments of being a Medium and doing a reading is when I was servicing a young female color client (I do hair as well) and her mother. My clients mother was Jewish (this part I didn’t know at the time) and from the East Coast. I felt the grandmothers spirit coming through strong, meaning personality.  She kept repeating as to what I understood it as (now being a very white female) “meatballs, meatballs, meatballs.” She was holding her first three fingers and waving them around with great passion. I could tell this women was short, had dark hair and was a very strong women, that when she spoke her family listened. So I relayed what she was saying, well I assumed she was Italian you know they like their meatballs. But my client looked at me with confusion. She then said “ohhhhh you mean Matzah Balls…..” Oh okay um sure, what the heck are those? She proceeded to explain what they were, and to let me know her mother was NOT Italian, but Jewish. Then, as I was washing my clients daughters hair out, which was golden blonde, real pretty. Her grandmother came back yet again and started showing me this picture of a long braid almost like Rapunzel’s hair ( I think this women in Spirit got tired of speaking to me because I wasn’t understanding). She showed me that she was braiding her granddaughters hair, or at least thats what I assumed (its hard playing a game of sharrades with the dead). So I asked my client if her “Grandmother used to comb and play with your hair, turning it into braids?” She said, “No not really, actually never.” So, i just explained what it was I was seeing and I kept saying “she’s showing me braids and golden hair .” Yet again, I get the look of “what are you talking about.” Soon her mother jumps up and screams “CHALLAH”. This is a braided bread thats very commonly made in the Jewish cuisine, usually eaten on ceremonial occasions. So it just goes to show, that Spirit from all different race, religion and background will find a way to communicate. And this white girl can and will get any messages out even if she thinks an Italian women is saying “meatballs”:)

3) Do you have one clair that’s stronger than another?

I actually have been blessed in the ability of  using all the Clair’s both during a reading and detective work. Not a lot of us (medium’s) have the ability to do so, so I am glad to be able to. So, here’s a list for those who aren’t aware of what they are and what they do.

1.Clairvoyance-Clear Seeing

2.Clairaudience-Clear Hearing

3.Clairvalience- Clear Smelling

4.Clairgustance- Clear Tasting

5.Clairsentience- Clear Feeling

6.Claircognizance- Clear Knowing

4) How do you deal with people not accepting of your abilities?

Oh goodness how I deal with people not accepting my abilities. You know, it’s that I’ve come to this point in my life that I don’t feel I have to prove anything to anyone. If you believe in the higher power, then you vibe with me. If you are still finding what it is you believe in then my answer to you is this…”keep going”. I feel as a psychic, I am able to meet people where they are at. To have that grace and compassion and to be free of judgment. I’ve been on my own healing and spiritual journey myself and what I’ve found that is most people just want to be loved and accepted. So, that’s what I will continue to do, and continue spreading my light.

5) I know you like doing detective work, what’s the reasoning behind that?

Ohhhhhhh, man you hit the money question. I absolutely love doing psychic detective work. The reason being is. I want to bring justice to those who have departed, but also bring comfort and compassion to their loved ones who are still here on earth moving on a day to day and trying to go back to normalcy. Being an empath, meaning I can feel others deep feelings, I am able to reach deep into the loved ones emotions and feel what they are going through. It’s a blessing and a curse. But I’m happy to be of service to those who are going through a very difficult and emotional time. All someone would want is to be able to be relatable and get what it is they’re going through on a deeper level. Not everyone has compassion and empathy and to be able to feel as deep all while being of service. It’s a balancing act that I sometimes can get knocked off energetically. But once I focus on love and service, all falls into place.

6) Is there a specific angel or being you work with on a consistent basis?

You know, I have a huge team of spiritual beings. It ranges from Archangels, Angels, Guides, my Grandmother, Spirit Animals which are; Tiger, 4 Dragons, Lion, Wolf, Black Panther, Eagle, Hawk and the list will go on as I grow and ascend. If you wanna know my favorite guides to work with those would be my dragons for sure. Such powerful creatures. I think because I use all my Clair’s during a mediumship reading or working on a psychic detective case, I need a BIG team. I may be a lot to handle haha!!

7)  How do you deal with lots of energy around you?

How I handle lots of energy around me is; clear, clear, clear and more clearing. Meaning, I am constantly grounding myself into the earth like roots from a tree. Or sometimes I stick my mermaid fin in water and it clears me. When I am in public places with a lot of different energy, and I start feeling anxious, I start my process in my mind and imagine being surrounded in white light, like my own little bubble. I know for me attending places in large groups, malls, restaurants, concerts and even some friends, I just can’t handle being around for hours on end. It’s a very short lived amount of time. But, I don’t find it annoying or obnoxious that  I cannot sustain long interactions. I’m both introvert and extrovert. I’m okay being alone because I’m not lonely. People don’t know the difference and those that do…you’re a keeper.

8) Do you use any tools or do any rituals in your work?

 The only tools I guess I use during my mediumship work would be a guided grounding meditation to connect to Source and then I call in my ‘Team” refer to question 6, and boom I’m connected and ready to go. I also do Reiki which is healing energy work, and I use crystals and oils during my services. When doing psychic detective cases I have to ‘set’ a time to connect with the one whom has departed. I also work with another spiritual healer , where she then takes me on a hypnotic trance to connect to such spirit and then I am shown bits and pieces to the puzzle that can help the detectives solve the case. My part is to collect data, not to solve the case. I’ll leave that up to the detectives. But I love helping and being of service.

9) Who’s a medium in the field you really admire?

Oh goodness, I’m gonna narrow it down to 3. 

I absolutely love, and had a huge opportunity to work with world-renowned medium and clairvoyant Lisa Williams. Such a beautiful soul who really helped me anchor in my psychic detective abilities while taking one of her many in-person courses.

Teresa Caputo. Now she is just phenomenal and such a medium icon. Her gifts are reaching  so many souls globally. Every medium can learn from her I feel. Or maybe just to know that  the“higher the hair, the closer to God!” LOL 

 Kim Russo. “The Happy Medium.” I think what drew me to her is the wide variety of gifts she offers this world, like me. Ranging from helping psychic kids, paranormal activity and celebrity ghost encounters. I love that her passion is truly using her souls purpose to share her God given gifts to the world and truly being Of Service. The best place to do your souls work is through the heart.

10) Where can we find out more about you?

You can find out more about me: 

Instagram @mediumwendykay 

Website www.mediumwendykay.com

Email me info@wendykay.net